The Problem with Free "Communities" in LA

Ysabel Chavez
Dec 28, 2024
3 min read

Los Angeles is a city full of opportunity, diversity, and creativity, but it’s also notorious for its surface-level friendships and a culture of flakiness. At the heart of this phenomenon are the free “communities” that are everywhere—from casual meetups to pop-up events. While they promise connection and belonging, they often fall short of delivering meaningful value.

Let’s dive into why free communities in LA often add to the problem rather than solving it—and how investing in something more intentional, like the Global Dream Team, can change everything.

The Surface-Level Connection Trap

Free communities tend to attract a mix of people with varying levels of interest and commitment. While this can create an inclusive environment, it often leads to shallow interactions. Without a shared purpose or investment, conversations rarely go deeper than, “What do you do?” or, “How did you find out about this event?”

Real friendships require more than proximity. They’re built on shared values, vulnerability, and the time and effort to nurture trust. Free spaces often lack the framework to support this level of connection, leaving people feeling unseen or undervalued.

Why Free Often Equals Flaky

When there’s no cost or commitment involved, it’s easy to say “yes” to an event or meetup and then not show up—or show up late, unprepared, or disengaged. This flakiness perpetuates LA’s reputation for unreliable friendships and undermines the potential for meaningful community.

Free communities often focus on attracting the largest possible group rather than fostering intentional participation. The result? Events feel transactional and inconsistent, leaving participants unfulfilled.

The Emotional Cost of Shallow Connections

If you’ve spent any time in these spaces, you know the feeling:

Leaving an event drained because no one really saw you or cared to.
Excited to make new connections, only to face flakiness or a lack of follow-through.
Wondering if you’re asking too much for wanting real, supportive relationships.

It’s exhausting to crave meaningful connections and constantly feel let down. For many, this cycle breeds a sense of isolation in what should be a thriving city of opportunity.

But it doesn’t have to be this way. Imagine instead:

Walking into a room where everyone shows up because they care about their growth—and yours.
Having a community that values reliability and respects your time and energy.
Being surrounded by people who inspire, uplift, and challenge you to become your best self.

Why the Global Dream Team is Different

This is exactly why I created the Global Dream Team—to provide a solution for people who are ready to move past surface-level friendships and into something deeper, more supportive, and transformative.

The Global Dream Team is more than a community—it’s a curated space for high-achieving dreamers and doers to:

Find Clarity: Get clear on your goals and take action with purpose.
Build Momentum: Stay consistent and accountable with the help of like-minded peers.
Expand Your Horizons: Tap into exclusive travel and growth experiences that change your perspective and ignite your potential.

Here’s what makes it truly special:

1. A Shared Purpose and Clear Values

Everyone in the Global Dream Team is aligned with our mission of intentional connection, professional growth, and transformative experiences. This isn’t a space where people flake or half-commit—it’s a space where people show up for themselves and for each other.

2. Unparalleled Value and Support

When you join, you’re not just joining a community—you’re stepping into an ecosystem designed to elevate every aspect of your life:

Weekly Accountability Pods: Stay consistent with your goals through small group check-ins.
Pain Points and Give/Ask Sessions: Solve challenges collaboratively and gain new perspectives.
Workshops and Resources: Access tools, strategies, and expert insights to fast-track your growth.

3. Transformative Travel Experiences

We don’t just connect online—we meet in unforgettable places. Imagine transformative retreats, cultural dinners, and co-working trips that help you reset, grow, and forge lifelong connections.

Stepping out of your day-to-day routine and into a new environment can unlock clarity and inspiration in ways you’ve never imagined.

What’s the Value?

When you invest in the Global Dream Team, you’re investing in more than a community—you’re investing in yourself.

Here’s what you can expect:

Save Time: Stop spinning your wheels and focus on what really matters with our curated resources and actionable strategies.
Authentic Connections: Build relationships with people who are as invested in their growth as you are in yours.
Elevate Your Life: Transform your mindset, gain new perspectives, and achieve your goals with the help of a supportive network.